人很奇怪. 对陌生人客气,对亲密的人发脾气.

从来劝导别人比自己劝导自己简单！

当身边的朋友和他们的家人有冲突或不满，甚至对家人发脾气时，我总是能够很冷静地给予他们理智且客观的意见或劝导。相反的事情发生时，他们也能如此安慰我。


天下没有不真心关心你的家人！

我能明白、我能谅解。只是，当我身处在类似的情况时，我还是会无法控制自己的发了脾气。


顺便一提：今天是戒烟的第四天（不包括在这三天之前几天的适应期）。

虽然今天发生了一件令我感觉愤怒和心情紧张的事件，还好还能调整自己的情绪，避免了破坏我的戒烟计划。

继续撑下去吧！

Trying is a must, resilience is the key!

I'm actually quite surprised that I tried new things recently. I've tried kickboxing, ice skating and swimming. Without her, I might not have the motivation to force myself doing all these. While doing these new activities, I found out that myself is actually able to do it but have never try to do it on my own will.

Kickboxing is an activity I have done for over a month long so far. So far so good. It's good for me to exercise, lose weight and build up body. And, before this, I have never been able to do push-ups for more than 5 times continuously - now I can consistently do it for almost 10 times. I'm practicing it for at least 5 times for 2 sessions daily.

Introvert/ISTJ vs Unplanned Invitations

As an ISTJ, where "J" (Judgement) refers to someone who tend to plan activities and make decisions early, I'm weak at handling sudden cases or unplanned invitations. While most of the times I would compromise and accept those unplanned invitations, I actually feel quite uncomfortable and energy-draining when I had to face it - another introvert's issue. What makes me more unhappy is that no one around me in real life seems to understand this. This is why many people would think I'm not flexible to their surprise invitations, or rather think I'm just not sociable - even though this is not the case.

I understand that the world is full of uncertainties and unplanned occasions. This is why I would think my MBTI personality - ISTJ - is the cause of the frustrations I get/face in real life.

I have started to get used to unplanned invitations since long ago. I'm not trying to surrender myself, I'm just thinking to change a behavior that might adversely affect my social life and friendships.

I need comprehension, my lovely friends!